The Dual perspective says: “My story explains me. I am my story.” The Nondual perspective says: “It’s more than that. My story is part of me and definitely shaped me, but it does not contain all of me.” The dot is the personal self: history, wounds, trauma, childhood, attachment, diagnosis, astrology chart, numerology, personality, and so on. The circle is the Being itself (the impersonal): the mystery (unknown) that cannot be reduced to explanation. That cannot be contained

We are humans; therefore we grieve. And vice versa; we grieve; therefore we are humans. In a linear understanding — the classic representation of a horizontal line drawn across a hierarchical time: past, present, future — we may think that grief starts with the self’s incarnation into this body, this world. Within this view, grief is often held as a passage: something that starts, unfolds, and eventually ends. There is a before, a during, and an after. Like a ladder, it sugge

-ONE ROAD, IN TWO-NESS WALKED- SEEKING AND HOMECOMING "for the soul feels that this thirst of love is a loving thirst" Leonard Cohen We do seek. And we get often lost and tired. All this is nevertheless true. At times we don't know what we are seeking, and where we head towards. And we become weary and tired and old. And the questioning stays with us. Maybe we dare ask in solitude: 'Have I wandered and found? Have I t